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August 8, 2007

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Opportunity Knocks

A Foolproof Strategy to Get Yourself Moving

Special Announcement

Find Your Calling by Helping Others Realize Theirs 

Guest Article

Upcoming Workshops and Teleclasses

Work at What You Love Workshop
Dream Makers Teleclass Series
"How to Become Joyfully Jobless" with Barbara Winter

The View From the Other Side

Resources for a Change

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It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. ~ Alan Cohen

Opportunity Knocks
Creative Ways to Make a Living Without A Job

A Foolproof Strategy to Get Yourself Moving

Valerie and her wonder dog,
"Cokie Roberts"

By Valerie Young

In my last article, "In the World of Possibilities, New Members Are Always Welcome" I talked about the difference between the people who live in the so-called Real World and those of us who dwell in the far more enriching (and frankly more fun) World of Possibilities. To make my case, I borrowed a line from actor/director/ hip hop star Will Smith who said, "Being realistic is the most commonly traveled road to mediocrity."

Okay I need to be fair here. Even though they may end up living a mediocre life, some Real World-types are actually quite creative. They are forever thinking up all kinds of ideas for inventions or articles or businesses. Some even go so far as to jot down exhaustive notes, outlines, and to-do lists. A few even go so far as to design prototypes, develop detailed marketing plans, or write entire books.

There is only one problem. Unless they make the leap to World of Possibilities, no one else ever sees their handiwork, which leads me to the story of an inspiring dream grower named Lynn Burkholder from Guelph, Canada. A few weeks ago Lynn sent out an announcement about her new newsletter, "The Inner Genius." What’s an "inner genius"? I’ll let Lynn explain:

I believe we are all born with a set of gifts, talents and preferences that are "hard wired" into our DNA. I don't think it's an accident or necessarily a result of our environment that we are naturally drawn to certain tasks and areas of interest. Unfortunately, most of these gifts are never developed because we are expected to live our lives fitting into a construct that society has prescribed as the norm.

I also believe that it is never too late to excavate these gifts and incorporate them into our lives. When I was in Grade One, I used to write extra stories for my teacher. I even remember the sky blue pencil I used to write about my sister's wedding. That love for writing has remained dormant for 30 years. Why? I could give you a long list of reasons but it all boils down to the fact that I didn't develop the skill because I didn't believe it was possible. In the society I was shown growing up, people didn't make money writing. Thankfully, I don't believe that anymore.

What seemingly small, insignificant past-time did you give up because you were told you couldn't make a living at it? And further, who lead you to believe that you had to make a living doing just one thing? Why couldn't there be two or three or ten?

Quite naturally then, Lynn’s new newsletter is aimed at people who want to pursue their Inner Genius. (Who wouldn’t?) But here’s where it got interesting. As I continued reading I learned that by signing up I would not only receive the first issue of Find Your Inner Genius on July 16th (remember that date) but that it would include a link to a free Special Report called "12 Ways to Find Out What You Are ‘Supposed’ To Be Doing!"

Commit, Then Do

Why am I telling you this? Well, Lynn was a member of my 2006 Outside the Job Box Career Certification program. The formal part of the training program ended in March. Lynn’s invitation arrived a few months later on July 9th to be exact (remember this date too). I couldn’t send a congratulatory email fast enough!

Apparently my words of encouragement came at the right time because as soon as she’d made this public commitment, Lynn says she was feeling, "really vulnerable." And why wouldn’t she? After all, "Now I have to write a newsletter AND a special report by Monday," adding, half jokingly, "Evidently, I like pressure. Ha ha."

If I was proud of Lynn before, I was positively beaming now. She had mastered an incredibly simple but hugely important lesson about fast tracking any dream – commit, then do.

The first thing Lynn did was to put a stake in the ground by setting a deadline. Remember those two dates – announcing her new newsletter to the world on July 9th and setting a due date of July 16th? Lynn had given herself exactly seven days to write a newsletter and a special report.

Now obviously Lynn had given both the newsletter and the special report a lot of thought. And she no doubt had parts of both either written or at least sketched out in her head. Wisely though, she employed THE absolute best technique for making a more rapid leap from the mediocrity of the Real World to the world where possibilities become realities… she made herself accountable.

It’s one thing to come up with one of those made up deadlines that are between "you and you." But to make sure she stuck to her goal Lynn announced her intention to the world. There is simply no better way to overcome procrastination than to employ the Commit, Then Do technique.

If you want to teach a seminar you haven’t 100 percent designed yet, set a date and start signing people up for your seminar. If you’ve spent the last year studying how to import olive oil from Italy, take a small deposit on a few pre-orders. If you want to write an eBook, promise a bunch of people that you’ll send them a free copy when it’s done.

Will you make yourself vulnerable this way? Absolutely! Yet "Unless you walk out into the unknown," says Tom Peters, "the odds of making a profound difference in your life are pretty low." The person who never makes him or herself vulnerable will never fall in love, will never visit long-dreamed-of destinations, will never share their gifts with the world, and will certainly never live the life they want – and richly deserve. The way I see it, it is far better to have to reschedule the workshop or return the deposits or push off the due date to risk being vulnerable than it is to leading a life of utter mediocrity.

Speaking of mediocrity - or more precisely the all too common fear that if you do eventually write your eBook or set up your import business or deliver your seminar that it will turn out mediocre at best – there is another related concept that any dreamer needs to master.

Know When "It’s Good Enough"

In the software development world, this concept even has a buzzword. It’s called "Good Enough Quality." In his article "Good Enough Quality, Beyond the Buzzword," James Bach says, "Microsoft begins every project with the certain knowledge that they will choose to ship with known bugs." No big surprise to PC owners and yet, at the same time, rather startling I’m sure to many.

The big Internet marketing gurus have another, somewhat more descriptive, name for it. The phrase they use to urge would-be entrepreneurs to just get your stuff out there is: "Half a** is better than no a**." (Think Biblical name for donkey here.)

Before I say another word, I need to be 100 percent clear here. No one is talking about putting out sub-par products or services. Bill Gates did not build the dominant software company in the world with bad products. No one makes it long in the Internet marketing world, never mind get to be multi-millionaires like the big gurus have, by putting out schlocky stuff. As Bach is quick to add, "Good enough has nothing to do with mediocrity."

The point is one of biggest reasons why most ideas never see the light of day is because people get so obsessed with making sure that every possible kink is worked out, every word is perfect, every conceivable base is covered, that they never just get their stuff out there.

Let’s face it. It’s always "easier" to do nothing. It’s always easier to endlessly research your big idea. Never acting on your gifts may be depressing and soul-sucking, yes, but still it really is easier. So I wish I could tell you there was such a thing as effortless success. But as Lynn and others know, once you’ve mastered the concepts of "Commit, Then Do" and the "It’s Good Enough" you still actually buckle down and DO it.

Do you know why Will Smith says he never gets tired of pushing? It’s because he says, "There is no pain worse than not achieving a dream when it is your fault. If God did not want you to have it, that is one thing. But if you do not get what you desire because you are lazy, there is no pain worse than that." Amen.

If you’re ready to go after your dream, Lynn is holding a special "Summer Sale." For a limited time only, Changing Course subscribers like you can receive a personal 90 -minute "Outside the Job Box" career consultation for only $50 (normally $150). To schedule a consultation or to get your free Special Report, go to FindYourInnerGeniusNow.com and sign up for Lynn’s more-than-good-enough newsletter now.

About the Author

"Turning Interests Into Income" expert, Valerie Young, abandoned her corporate cubicle to become the Dreamer in Residence at ChangingCourse.com offering resources to help you discover your life mission and live it. Her career change tips have been cited in Kiplinger's, The Wall Street Journal, USA Today Weekend, Woman's Day, and elsewhere and on-line at MSN, CareerBuilder, and iVillage.com. An expert on the Impostor Syndrome, Valerie has spoken on the topic of How to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone Seems to Think You Are to such diverse organizations as Daimler Chrysler, Bristol-Meyers Squibb, Harvard, and American Women in Radio and Television.

To read more articles about how to work at what you love without a job go to ChangingCourse.com/articles.htm  

The important thing is this: To be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could become. ~ Charles Dubois

Special Announcement

Find Your Calling by Helping Others Realize Theirs

What could be more fun than sitting at home (or anywhere in the world really) and brainstorming with people over the telephone about creative ways they could make a living without a job − and actually getting paid to do it! Or running workshops on how to turn interests into income? Or making money 24-hours a day by selling your own eBooks, CDs, or other information products that help people do work that feeds their soul?

I can't tell you how gratifying it is to know that the work you do makes some small difference in other people's lives. Helping someone see possibilities, recognize their gifts, and connect the dots so they can turn their interests into income, is something that just comes naturally to me. Maybe it comes naturally to you too.

If you’re a creative thinker, are entrepreneurial, love to brainstorm, and want to get paid to do what comes naturally, then in a few short months, you could be running your own business as an "Outside the Job Box Career Consultant." I’ll show you how.

Important Registration Information:

Registration began on Monday at noon Eastern Time, and in less than two hours, over a third of the very limited number of seats were taken.

On Saturday, August 11th my "company" (that would be me!) is sending me up to a lake on Saturday to write for a week. (Sweet!) Since I won’t be around to field questions and I don’t have an internet connection or cell service at the lake (which is the whole point of going away to work) I’ve asked Lisa to close down registration for the program while I’m gone.

Once I get back I’m going to be really busy getting ready for the big Work at What You Love workshop with Barbara Winter happening August 24 and 25. If there are still seats available after that, I will open the registration process up again on Monday, August 27th following the workshop.

If you know now that you going to be out of town the week of August 27th, contact Vision Implementation Manager Lisa Tarrant at Lisa@ChangingCourse.com to see if there are still seats available.

To learn more about whether the Outside the Job Box Certification is right for you I urge you to print out and read the entire program description at ChangingCourse.com/certification.

 

Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish. ~ John Quincy Adams

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How to "Show Up" for Your Dreams

All this summer I’ve been featuring the real life stories of people I first met in one of the Changing Course workshops. People who make the decision to show up at a live event are people who are ready to "show up" for their dreams. Having met all three of these inspiring people, I have a feeling these folks would have been successful no matter what.

To kick things off, here, in her own words, is Suzanne Willis’s story:

I've been busy since the workshop! And I'm delighted to report that I have followed my dreams and I'm teaching etiquette to children and adults. BEFORE the workshop I’d been the Public Relations Director at luxury resorts for more than 15 years -- most recently with The Ritz-Carlton Hotel Company.

AFTER the workshop I decided that life was too short not to follow my dreams...and I started planning my future. About a year later, I resigned from my "big salary" job at The Ritz to pursue my dreams. Before I left The Ritz, I created an etiquette class for children and named it Mimi's Manners in honor of my grandmother, Mimi (now I teach it in her memory). I decided that I wanted to expand the classes and write children's books.Suzanne Willis

SINCE the Workshop: I'm now writing a book about manners for children and I continue to teach etiquette classes at Ritz-Carlton resorts in Florida and at country clubs, schools, etc. I've expanded the program to include etiquette classes for teens and adults as well as tea etiquette classes. I'm in the process of expanding the business (to make a living doing what I love!) and I've even traveled across the country to teach to business etiquette to Fortune 500 companies.

Your workshop helped me discover that there are many ways to "make a living without a job" and I'm enjoying the challenges (but sometimes it's difficult to balance all the demands)! But I love the freedom -- and I love instilling confidence in children as they learn (and practice) their manners. My "aha" moment came at the end when we were all asked to stand up and "declare" what we were going to do after the workshop. Just saying my dream out loud made it more real and started to bring it to life. I've realized that it takes "baby steps" every day. It's scary, exciting, challenging and fun.

Thanks again to Valerie and Barbara.

Suzanne Willis
SuzanneWillis.com
MimisManners.com

p.s. The attached photo is from (believe it or not) my grandmother's funeral. Her favorite color was pink and she wanted us to celebrate her life with pink champagne. Here's a toast to Mimi!

Next is Jane Kirsch. I first met Jane last summer at the Northampton seminar and then again when she signed up for the 2006 Outside the Job Box Career Certification program. Then in July we ran into each other hundreds of miles from my home when we were both visiting the Chautauqua Institute at the same time and were approaching the same jeweler at a craft show – a person we BOTH knew! Talk about your small world!

Jane is a great example of someone who has what Barbara Winter would call, eclectic income streams. Here is Jane’s story:

Dear Valerie:

This is in response to Lisa’s query about what has happened to the 2006 participants at the Work At What You Love workshop.  It has been an extraordinary year of exploration and growth for me and I’d like to share it with all of you. 

A little history – I had been self-employed for much of my adulthood in a variety of endeavors but about 3 years ago, one of my vendors offered me a position that included an opportunity to travel, an excellent salary with complete retirement benefits, and a lot of recognition in the industry.  Having just gone through some real life-changing events, this JOB seemed to be a safety net that sounded great.  

It only took about a year for me to realize that this was not the ideal career for me by any stretch of the imagination, and that I was beginning to suffer health problems from the constant stress.   

When I received the announcement of the workshop in Northampton, I made an instant decision to attend.  I already had a kernel of an idea for a business I wanted to develop, and I knew that the combined efforts of you and Barbara Winter would provide the inspiration I needed to launch it.     

As fate would have it, I ended up spending my last day of corporate employment at the workshop that Friday.  What a great place to exit the rat race!   

The exercises and group brainstorming helped me continue the process of defining the design business.  I got a lot of encouragement from my table-mates in conversations, and was inspired by the speakers and entrepreneurs who shared their creative and imaginative ideas.  The energy is that room was astounding!    

At the same time, some of that group work helped me realize that the design business was something that I "just knew how to do" from many years of experience.  Being a true scanner, lots of other ideas popped up that weekend, and I quickly produced a stack of index cards of different possibilities.   But, since my JOB had ended abruptly, I proceeded to set up my Better Living Solutions design business in order to keep income flowing.  

Then you offered a Creative Career Consultant Certification program through Changing Course, and I knew immediately that I wanted to take my years of experience and knowledge to help others find ways to make their dreams come true.   The training and resources that I received have resulted in a growing private practice of consultation work that is changing my life.  

Now a year later, I am happily spending my time doing everything I truly enjoy. I design homes where people can live safely and comfortably despite issues of aging or physical disability.  I consult with creative career clients one-on-one about their dream endeavors.  I do public speaking and conduct workshops on both subjects, and now, thanks to your encouragement, I am developing a membership program for single women.

I have been challenged to learn all about web-sites, blogging and marketing in this internet age and to improve my writing and communication skills.  I have met many interesting people and the constant exposure to new ideas is thrilling.  Every day is a new adventure.   

Besides having time now for my family and friends, my days are spent working at tasks that excite me and allow me to truly work at what I love!    Thank you so much for helping me find a wonderful new "retirement" phase of my life.  

Jane Kirsch
Philadelphia, PA
LifeAndWorkByDesign.com   

Finally from the June 2006 Ventura, California workshop came this quick - but very cool - update from Steve Robinson author of a laugh out loud book called Why Stevie Can’t Date. Back in June he appeared on local "The Morning Show" on
KLBC-TV.

You go Steve! Today the KLBC Morning Show, tomorrow Oprah!

To learn more about Why Stevie Can’t Date and other books by Changing Course workshop attendees, stop by the Changing Course Bookstore.

There are lots of ways to "show up" for your dream besides attending a workshop. You can find out if there are any conferences on something you have always dreamed of turning into your full time job… like say beading. Or you can hop on the Internet and look up how say to make money from your love of cuddling or canoeing. Or you can start looking into sources of local funding or free workshops in your area for people who want to start a small business.

Oh, wait. I already did that for you! J Scroll down to the Resources for a Change section to see just how many cool resources and opportunities there are out there for people who are ready to show up for themselves and their dreams!

We still have about 10 seats available for the big Work at What You Love workshop. To learn more go to ChangingCourse.com/workshop.htm. Who knows…this time next year, the seeds you plant there may be featured In the Garden!

 

The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. ~ Albert Einstein

Upcoming Workshops and Teleclasses

Work at What You Love Workshop Updates

Discover How to Replace Your Job With Work You Really Love… and Gain the Freedom, Flexibility and Quality of Life You Deserve

 

ONLY 10 SEATS LEFT!

 

August 24-25, 2007
Northampton, Massachusetts

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Fast Track Members – Learn how you can "Have dinner on me!"*

 

Monthly Dream Maker Teleclass Series

You just never know who you are going to meet in Paris! While reviewing the Ultimate Travel Photographer course held in Paris in May, I not only learned a ton about all the different ways to turn your photos in cash, but I also met some of the most fascinating people.

I could go on about the couple who reside half the year in Santa Cruz, California and the other half living on a barge on a river in the south of France… or the woman who at 55 decided it was now or never so packed up her bags and moved to Venice for a year on her own… or dozens of other adventuresome travel lovers that I met from 16 countries.

But the one that really captured this entrepreneur’s imagination was The Dog Chefs cooking for dogs!Master Dog Chef Micki Voisard of Dog Chefs of America. In addition to an interest in photography, Micki runs her fascinating business in the Arizona desert in a totally unique '50s diner-style working kitchen that doubles as a classroom. This whimsical environment doubles as a TV set backdrop as well as a location for film and educational CD/DVD production.

Micki is quick to point out that, "This is not a "cutesy" doggie bakery!" Instead she creates daily prepared meals of real food for dogs, and teaches future dog chefs how they can improve their dog's health through implementation of a real food diet. When she’s not teaching cooking classes on site, Micki’s public speaking schedule allows her to do her other favorite activity – travel! If all that weren’t enough, Micki is currently producing her first television program. Talk about going after a dream!

What impressed me even more though is that on top of everything else she’s doing, Micki still finds time to make a difference. When hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans, Micki, her husband David and a small band of friends sprang into action to help a struggling dog shelter in New Orleans. Click here, then follow the monthly chronicle of how she is living her grand vision of encouraging others to just "jump in and get it done!"

Listen in as I interview Micki about what it takes to succeed in this fascinating business and hear her advice to others who have a big dream. If you love dogs or cooking or giving back, or all of the above, you won’t want to miss this informative and inspiring session with a true Dream Maker!

Monday, August 20th
12:00-1:00pm Eastern Time
Click Here to Learn More

This series is free to current members of the Fast Track Your Dream Community members. Non-members are welcome to attend for $19 with all proceeds going to the non-profit micro-grant organization TrickleUp.org

"How to Become Joyfully Jobless"
2007 Teleclass Series hosted by Barbara Winter

Barbara Winter, author of Making a Living Without a Job

Barbara Winter

Like mini-workshops, these monthly Joyfully Jobless Teleclasses are interactive, which means you get to ask questions and benefit from firsthand feedback from the woman I call the "Muse of Self-Bossing."

Wednesday, September 12th
8:00-9:00pm Eastern Time
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This series is free to current members of the Fast Track Your Dream Community members. Non-members are welcome to attend for $19 with all proceeds going to the non-profit micro-grant organization TrickleUp.org

*To learn more about how you can fast track your dream of working at what you love - and get a two month membership FREE - go to ChangingCourse.com/fasttrackyourdream.htm

**A portion of all revenue from this Teleclass will go to support the entrepreneurial aspirations of impoverished people in the US and internationally via the micro-grant organization TrickleUp.org

To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe. ~ Anatole France

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The View From the Other Side

"Be bold enough to find the one thing that you are passionate about. It might not be what you were trained to do. But be bold enough to do the one thing. Nobody needs to dig it but you."

~ Chris Gardner, subject of the 2006 movie
The Pursuit of Happyness, in which Gardner was played by Will Smith

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Resources for a Change

Learn How to Build or Restore Canoes Fine craftsmanship and restoration of all things vintage is very big right now. If you are the handy type, and like the idea of building or restoring canoes, one place to start is with a 7-12 day class at Salmon Falls Canoe here in beautiful Shelburne Falls, Massachusetts. Even if wood working is not for you I think you’ll be inspired by the beauty of the handiwork featured in Restoration Gallery. (Wood-Canoe.com)

Get Paid to Cuddle Okay, it’s not what it sounds like. According to Cuddle Party web site a "Cuddle Party" is a playful social event designed for adults to explore communication, boundaries and affection. It is the brainchild of two relationship coaches, Reid Mihalko and Marcia Baczynski. Since 1994, its founders say they "have sought to bring clean, safe, welcomed affection to the world through these events." Today they travel the U.S. facilitating Cuddle Parties workshops and conducting leader certification programs. The founders have gotten a ton of media coverage all of which serves as an inspiring reminder that you really can take anything you love to do, become and expert at it, and turn it into a business! Attending a workshop in your pajamas may or may not be for you, but you have to admit, it’s a fascinating way to make a living! (CuddleParty.com)

Free Assistance for Low-Income Women The Women’s Initiative for Self-Employment provides a one-stop shop where high-potential, lower-income women in the San Francisco Bay area receive training to start and grow their business. They offer business management training, technical assistance, and financing services in English and Spanish. I heard about this worthwhile organization from Claudia Caruso, a participant in the Making Dreams Happen workshop. Claudia volunteers as a mentor in this organization’s "speed mentoring program." To learn how you can access services or, like Claudia, contribute, go to WomensInitiative.org

International Bead and Beadwork Conference This amazing event will feature 25 speakers from all over the world with the entire first day about Middle Eastern beadwork. Even if you can’t make it to Istanbul this November do yourself a favor and check out the bios of the workshop leaders. All of you who love making beaded jewelry but never thought you could turn it into a serious profession are in for a treat. If you can’t make the conference, invest in your dream with a subscription to Beadwork magazine. (Interweave.com)

Mega Speaking Event Bonus Savings Ends Tomorrow  Every year Mark Victor Hansen of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series brings in a team of experts to speak to over 500 people about how to build a mega-speaking business. The next one is November 2-4 in Los Angeles. If you’re interested, the 2-for-1 and free 16 set CD offers both end Thursday, August 9th. (ChangingCourse.com/recommends/megaspeaking2007)

 

Note: Changing Course does not accept paid advertisements from any of the resources listed here. This list is provided to expand your thinking about just how many interesting ways there are to make a living without a job!