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Changing Course
is dedicated to helping you:
~Live Life on Purpose
~Work at What You Love
~Follow Your Own Road
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Inside Today's Issue
Featured Article
What is in a Name? When it Comes to Discovering Your Dream Job, the Answer May
Be "Everything"
Featured Resource
Building Your Mega Speaking Empire
Upcoming Workshops & Teleclasses
Guest Article
Overcoming the #
1 Obstacle to Achievement
Holiday Gift Guide
View From the Other Side
Resources for A Change |
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A good name, like good will,
is got by many actions and lost by one. ~ Lord Jeffery |
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What is in a Name? When it Comes to Discovering Your Dream Job, the Answer May
Be "Everything"
By Valerie Young
Perhaps you've heard the
jokes about the garbage collector who refers to him or herself as a "waste
management engineer." But there's a lot going on behind this seemingly
humorous self-titling.
For one, the sad fact is, the person actually doing the job rarely gets
much, if any, say as to their job title. That's not to say that everyone
should necessarily get to decide on their title. I mean, how many CEO's of
XYZ company can there be? But then again, if asked, wouldn't it be
interesting to see what the people doing the work would come up with?
Not only that but there's a lot of personal power in naming yourself as
African Americans, long referred to as colored or Negroes, can attest. Some
would dismiss this kind of renaming with the belittling and vastly overly
used charge of "political
correctness." Yet, when we consider the garbage collector/waste
management engineer, we see that the renaming exercise is simply the
very human need to reclaim one's dignity.
As kindred spirit Barbara Winter and I were talking on the phone one day,
she happened to mention that she was having a wonderful time hand
painting her business cards. Intrigued, I asked her to send me one.
What I noticed first was the spring green and brown speckled
firefly dancing across nearly translucent paper. How fun!
But what I loved most about Barbara's card was her title:
Visionary-in-Chief. Since gradually transitioning from my corporate job
to running ChangingCourse.com, I was never quite able to come up with a
title I really liked. "Web site owner" felt dry and not terribly
descriptive of what I do. Since I am, by choice, a solo entrepreneur
supported by several wonderful freelancers, President of
ChangingCourse.com sounded a little silly.
Barbara's self-titling inspired me to come up with a new title of my
own. I wanted something that reflected my original dream which was to
somehow work from the comfort of home helping others realize their
own dreams. That's how I came up with the title of
"Dreamer-in-Residence."
What if you could create your own job title? What would it be? Would it
be working for your current employer but doing different job functions?
Would it be in a whole new career or field? Would it involve working
for yourself?
Say your dream was to work with children. If you aren't yet sure what
form that work might take, you could create a more general title like:
Enhancer of Children's Joy and Spirited Learning. If you love the idea
of refurbishing and selling old cars, your title might be Clunk
King (or Queen) Extraordinaire. Hey, that's what Linda Cobb, the
self-described "Clean of Queen" did to distinguish herself from other
cleaning tip experts and her books are now best-sellers!
I always liked General Dwight D. Eisenhower's title prior to his being
voted into the truly unique title of President of the United States.
During World War II, Eisenhower was the Supreme Commander of the Allied
Forces. Now THAT'S a title!
Imagine the garbage collector/waste management engineer, customer
service rep, sales manager, or recently downsized person being the
Supreme Commander of Waste Relocation, the Supreme Commander of Customer
Joy, the Supreme Commander of Selling Great Stuff, or the Supreme
Commander of Me, Myself and I? If someone handed me a business card with
any of these titles on it, the first thing I'd do is smile; then I'd
want to know more.
Ok, so your boss would never go for something as fun as that. But what
if you had business cards made up with your ideal job title just for
yourself. You could carry them around with you as a motivational
reminder that, while you are working in one place now, you are very much
in the process of moving toward another more fulfilling work/life.
What else can you buy for under $30 that will bring you so much
pleasure? So why delay? Pick your own title and put it in
print. When you choose your own job title, you'll find you may begin to
feel entitled to be it!
Just for this week I am:
Valerie Young,
Supreme Commander of Possibilities
P.S. I poked around the Internet a little and found a nifty
site whose
logo is, "Because the best business cards are the ones you create
yourself." They make it really easy to design your own very own personal
card on-line. Check them out at
BusinessCards.com
P.P.S. I also found a site offers free
business cards on selected templates or 25% off your first order. Learn about
these offers at
VistaPrint.com
About the Author
Off the beaten path career
counselor, Valerie Young, abandoned her corporate cubicle to become the Dreamer
in Residence at
ChangingCourse.com, offering free resources
to help you discover your life mission and live it. An expert on the Imposter
Syndrome, she's presented her How to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone
Seems to Think You Are program to over 30,000 people.
Find more articles written by
Valerie at
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There is really no insurmountable barrier save your own inherent weakness of
purpose.
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson |
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We need
to learn to set our course by the stars, not by the lights of every passing
ship.
~ Omar Bradley
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I have
learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has
reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome while trying to
succeed.
~ Booker T. Washington
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Courage is
the price life exacts for granting peace. ~ Amelia Earhart
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Guest Article
Overcoming the # 1
Obstacle to Achievement
By Laura K. Bryant
It’s Not What You Think
Ask
anyone the number one obstacle to getting things done, and the
answer is usually: “I just don’t have the time.” My hope is that
people come to recognize a “lack of time” for what it truly is: An
excuse. It’s the story you tell yourself when you’re not willing to
make something enough of a priority to take the time.
It’s OK for something not to be a priority in your life. What’s not
OK is to lie to yourself about it and say you don’t have time. This
lie has kept many from achieving their dreams.
So, What is the Number One Obstacle?
The
number one obstacle to achievement is not making a true
decision to achieve. The word decision is Latin in origin with
de meaning “from” and caedere meaning “to cut.” To
decide literally means to commit to an outcome while cutting
yourself off from any other possibility; there is no other option
than to succeed.
Most people I know say things such as, “I’d love to start my own
business,” or “I really need to lose weight,” or “I’ve been dying to
read that book.” These are not decisions at all. They’re the
things you might get done…when there’s enough time…someday.
Making the Decision
It’s easy to make a decision when you know: 1) What you want in life
AND 2) Who you need to be to get what you want.
Action Exercise
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Take five to ten minutes to write down what
you want. Write anything and everything you can think of, keep
your pen moving, and don’t censor anything. If you want it,
write it.
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Now, answer the questions: “Who do I have
to be to get what I want?” and “What characteristics do I have
to have to get what I want?”
Look to create the person you truly want to be. What would that
take?
The Only Way to Succeed
When researching those who consistently succeed, you’ll find they do
four things:
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Decide what they want
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Take consistent, persistent action to get
it
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Review what works and what doesn’t
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Change what they’re doing until they
succeed
Action Exercise
Decide to do something within the next 6-12 hours that will move you
a step closer to getting what you want. Make the commitment now,
schedule it, and follow-through. All it takes is a true decision.
About the Author
Laura K. Bryant is a speaker and author of, “Trust Yourself to
Transform Your Body: A Woman’s Guide to Health and Weight Loss
Without Diets.” She combined her over 20 years of research in
health and fitness, her passion for empowering women, and what she
learned from her own 40-pound weight gain and subsequent loss to
form her business, Inspire Fitness, designed to help women create
their own customized plans to reach and maintain a healthy weight. Visit Laura at
TrustYourselfToTransform.com.
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Most of
the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept
on trying when there seemed to be no help at all. ~ Dale Carnegie |
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View From
the
Other Side
I received this email
from one your fellow traveler’s on the road to right livelihood:
"Today with serious
doubts I drove 30 miles to downtown Chicago and enrolled in the Digital
Photography Program at the Harrington Institute after wanting to study
photography for many years. I am 52 years old.
I drove home wondering how the heck I was going to make this all work
out and the doubts crept in.
Reading last week’s newsletter
pulled me back to the
belief that I need to do this. It reminded me that sometimes everything
feels
a lot bigger than it
needs to...especially fear of failure. I was inspired
to keep the fear
either small and the keep the excitement manageable but
growing at the
same time."
~ Carolyn

According to a survey conducted by workplace consultant Sharon Jordan-Evans,
co-author of Love ‘Em or Lose ‘Em: Getting Good People to Stay, when asked to
rank 20 job characteristics in order of importance, workers under 41 ranked
flexibility as one of the top 10 reasons to stay with an employer. Those in the
boomer generation chose instead a desire for meaningful work.
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Resources
for A Change
Financial and
Marketing Support for Socially Conscious Entrepreneurs
Civic Ventures,
a San Francisco nonprofit, wanted to support older business people,
professionals and entrepreneurs who want to use their knowledge and
experience for the greater social good. So starting in June, the
organization will award $100,000 each to five social entrepreneurs aged 60
or older who are making a positive contribution to their communities through
their work. An inspiring case in point is the International Senior Lawyers
Project which matches experienced U.S. attorneys with human rights, domestic
violence, disability and other legal needs in developing countries. To learn
more or to submit a nomination, go to
LeadWithExperience.org.
In a bid to
showcase its talent, mega ad agency Leo Burnett is seeking a worthy
non-profit that needs a marketing campaign. The initiative, which the agency
dubbed Packaged Goods, is aimed at giving a big marketing and visibility
boost to an unknown entrepreneurial organization that has the potential to
become as well-known as Habitat for Humanity. Deadline for applications is
December 20th. Learn more at
PackagedGood.org.
Kiplinger’s Dream Job Contest
Want to pursue your passion? Check out the December
issue of Kiplinger’s magazine (Kiplinger.com).
In it you’ll read about some inspiring people who changed course to work at
what they love. People like world-renowned sand sculptor John Gowdy,
personal chef Susan McCabe, photographer and workshop leader Rich Wagner who
helped design AWAI’s Turn
Your Photos into Cash course, and others (including yours truly).
And be sure to enter Kiplinger’s Dream Job Contest
where you can win $5,000 in cash, a state-of-the-art Sharp computer system,
and extensive counseling from career change and business start-up
consultants. Winners will be flown to Washington, DC in April to consult
with experts and will also have the opportunity to meet with celebrity
mentors. Total prizes are valued at between $16,500 and $21,500, depending
on optional services selected. Application deadline is January 6th,
2006. Learn all about it at
Kiplinger.com/dreamjob.
Love to Cook?
Do you
dream of meeting a celebrity chef?
NBC’S “Today” show is looking for families
who love to make breakfast in the morning before starting a busy day on
the go. If you are a mom, dad, or teen who is the chef of the household
and does the majority of cooking in the family -- we want to hear from
you! And if your child absolutely loves cooking and has a favorite
celebrity chef they would love to meet, we want to hear from them
too! The deadline for all submissions is Monday, December 19th at 5:00
pm EST. Complete details at msnbc.msn.com/id/10242051/
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