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Issue 119

June 21, 2005

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Changing Course is dedicated to helping you:

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Inside Today's Issue

Featured Article

Summer is the Perfect Time to Grow a Dream

Featured Resource

10 Steps to Escaping the Job World and Creating the Life You Really Want

Work at What You Love Workshop Update

Guest Article

Big Changes, Little Changes

Upcoming Workshops and Teleclasses

The View From the Other Side

Resources for A Change

There is nothing more genuine than breaking away from the chorus to learn the sound of your own voice. ~ Po Bronson

Summer is the Perfect Time to Grow a Dream

By Valerie YoungValerie and her dog, Cokie

A number of people contacted me looking for an article that appeared last year around this time. The article was about how summer can be the ideal time to pursue a dream. Since today is the first official day of summer, it seemed fitting to reprint the article. Have a great summer and grow those dreams!

Has the school calendar of your youth hardwired you to see September as the time for new beginnings? If you yearn for a new job, a career change or maybe even a total life makeover – summertime is by far the best time to act.

Summer is synonymous with fun. It’s possible to make a change and still have time for recreation. In fact, the word recreation literally means to “re-create.” And what better way to spend your summer than recreating your life! Here are six ways you can use the rest of the summer to grow a dream:

  1. Catch a falling star. When my best friend, Elaine, and I weren’t building forts or skipping rope, we could be found lying beneath a shady tree or a star-filled sky. These weren’t idle pursuits. We were flexing our imaginations. As the most carefree of the four seasons, summers are made for dreaming. It’s the perfect time to gaze upward, to look inward and to imagine what could be.

  2. Grow a dream garden. Look within and you may find the seeds of a dream planted long ago. Left untended though, dreams will fail to sprout. Summer is the ideal time to cultivate our dreams both old and new. Start with good soil. What is it you care deeply about? What makes you happy? What do you want your life to look like? Now get rid of the weeds – the lame excuses, apathy, self-doubt, and fear born from lack of information. Tend to your dreams and watch them grow.

  3. Take advantage of the longer days. Even though those so-called lazy days of summer have gotten a lot busier of late, the additional hours of daylight do seem to add a bit more time to our lives. Once you’ve engaged in some active reflection, use some of this “found time” to start working toward your goals. Even if it’s only 20 minutes a day, it’s all forward motion!

  4. Read a real thriller. As you’re packing for the beach leave the romance novel or who-done-it at home. Instead treat your life like the adventure that it is by picking up a real thriller like Paul and Sarah Edwards The Practical Dreamer's Handbook or Create a Life That Tickles Your Soul by Suzanne Willis Zoglio. Maybe you already have a new direction in mind. Then take this time to read up on that exciting new career.

  5. Invest in your dream. Save both money and time by spending your vacation at home. Make it a real vacation by doing the kinds of things a tourist on a budget might do – go on a picnic, head to a museum, take a day trip. Stash the money you would have spent on a more costly vacation into a “dream fund.” Use your savings to take career-expanding classes, buy some snappy new interview outfit or even start your own business. If your dream includes relocating do hit the road by using your vacation as an exciting research expedition.

  6. Summer is the ideal time to ease into a new job. With all the overlapping vacation schedules, many organizations operate in a somewhat more relaxed mode in July and August. As a new hire, that means the trial by fire period is apt to be a little less trying. If you’ve been putting off a job move until the fall, keep in mind the slower pace makes summer a great time to learn the new job ropes before the workplace once again launches into fall overdrive.

Re-creating your life is about making choices. What choices are you willing to make to grow your dream? Whatever you decide to do, have a safe, relaxing, and inspired rest of the summer!

About the Author

Off the beaten path career counselor, Valerie Young, abandoned her corporate cubicle to become the Dreamer in Residence at ChangingCourse.com, offering free resources to help you discover your life mission and live it. An expert on the Imposter Syndrome, she's presented her How to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone Seems to Think You Are program to over 30,000 people.

Find more articles written by Valerie at ChangingCourse.com/articles/

Your big opportunity may be right where you are now. ~ Napoleon Hill

Featured Resource

10 Steps to Escaping the Job World and Creating the Life You Really Want

What if living the life you love and doing work you love were just ten steps away? For the first time ever, off the beaten career path consultant Valerie Young's 10 Steps to Escaping the Job World and Creating the Life You Really10 Steps to Escaping the Job World and Creating the Life You Really Want Want is available on CD.

You'll hear Valerie share the step-by-step process she used to say goodbye to a 90 mile a day commute to her corporate cubicle. It's a process anyone can use. If you're ready to get off the fast track so you can enjoy the freedom and quality of life that you deserve this CD is for you.

This lively 45 minute presentation was recorded at the American Writers and Artists Institute's Fast Track to Success program. If you think a presentation can't change your life? Think again. Read an actual letter from someone who attended Valerie's live presentation, took the leap, and has never been happier at changingcourse.com 

Every man who accomplishes things sees first in his mind what he wishes to do. He puts away all doubt. ~ Charles Fillmore

Work At What You Love Workshop Update

There is so much happening with the upcoming Work at What You Love Workshop that I hardly know where to begin! Attending this workshop is truly the chance of a lifetime. That’s because I’ve been very busy lining up a very cool group of people who have agreed to come and share their hard won secrets to quitting your job and getting a life.

I'd like to introduce you to some of the dynamic entrepreneurs you’ll meet this August in Northampton. Even if you can’t make the workshop, I know you’ll be inspired by their stories, but before we do that, I want to give you an update on some logistical information...

Update on Overnight Accommodations

In addition to the discounted rates we’ve arranged at some local hotels there are a number of lovely bed and breakfasts in the area. The average rate is $95 which typically includes a full breakfast. To find a list of B&Bs in the area go to http://www.BedAndBreakfast.com/northampton-massachusetts.html 

If you plan to stay at one of the local hotels offering a Changing Course discount, I encourage you to book soon! Northampton and the Pioneer Valley in general is a vacation destination. That means we were only able to get a small block of discounted rooms at each location and any unreserved rooms will be released in mid-July.

Working Artist, Bonnie Druschel

I first met Bonnie about six years ago when she signed up for a weekly business group I was running for small business owners that was sponsored by a local bank (which by the way is a great venue and credibility-enhancer if you're considering doing something similar). The series was geared toward people who wanted to grow their fledgling business. At the time Bonnie was a struggling artist and jewelry designer.

Thanks to Bonnie's persistence and vision, today her business is thriving due in large part to a licensing agreement she landed with a giftware manufacturer. Her colorful and uplifting artwork has been used for all sorts of products including coffee mugs, votives, magnets, key chains, gift bags, gift totes, and jewelry pins. Many of these products also feature inspirational sayings coined by Bonnie herself.

Bonnie will talk about what it takes to get your artwork licensed and how, one step at a time, she made her own dreams come true! You can visit Bonnie's virtual studio at SundazeStudios.com

Animal Communicator, Dawn Allen

Imagine filling out the line on forms that asks for your occupation with “professional animal communicator.” Well, that’s what Dawn Allen does. Commonly known in this neck of the woods as the “pet psychic,” Dawn prefers the emphasis to be on her communication skills.

Okay here’s where I have to admit that I’ve worked with Dawn in an attempt to get at the possible route of my dog’s drastic behavior change. What fascinated me about Dawn was not so much that she has a gift for communicating with dogs, cats, horses and the like, but that she’s managed to turn what she does into a full-time living leaving time for her to work on her fabric art.

Dawn will share how she trained for her career and how she’s now getting paid to train others who share her interest in understanding life from the animal’s point of view. Dawn’s web site is DawnAllen.org 

Weaver and Exotic Fiber Farm Co-Owner, Ed Cothey

Although he wouldn’t remember me, I met Ed while out on a Sunday drive through the local hill towns with a group of friends. A sign on the side of the road read simply, “Fiber farm” and pointed to a dirt road. None of us were sure what a fiber farm was but were game for an adventure.

The farm name Tregellys is Cornish for “Hidden Homestead” and according to Ed the farm was born when he and his poet wife Jody traded a wood-chipper for a few dairy goats, and picked up two pigs and two Merino sheep at the Heath Fair. The farm expanded rapidly to includeAngora goats, Llamas, Alpacas, Yaks, Icelandic, Navajo Churro, Soay, Jacob, Shetland, and Karakul Sheep, White Galloway Cattle, Dzo and Dzomo’s, Black Angus and Jersey Cattle, 7 Dogs, 5 Cats, Ducks, Geese, Chickens, Turkeys, Pheasants, White Peacocks, a Poitou and a mini Donkey.

Before long Ed, a commercial fisherman in his native England, learned to weave. Today Ed is a self-described “fiberholic.” Ed will share how his business has transformed from creating and selling beautiful naturally dyed yarn to a traveling fiber animal educational program for children and others. Oh, and in his spare time he’s learning to make jewelry. Although Ed is currently in India until late July, you can visit the animals at the farm web site at TregellysFibers.com

Photographer, Digital Photography Instructor, Frame Shop Owner, Rich Wagner

Rich is truly a man of many talents – and income streams. He began his photographic career in college as a freelance photographer for Pittsburgh newspapers.  After graduation, photography remained a hobby during his 20-year career in retail, and in 1984, Rich opened a custom framing and fine art gallery. His shop, Imagine It Framed, located in Simsbury, CT, recently had the honor of being designated as one of “America’s Top 100” custom framers by Décor Magazine. (This interesting entrepreneur also owns an ice cream shop!)

Rich’s work is in private and public collections all over the world.  His images hang in public corporations and private foundations from San Diego to Boston and in homes from the Americas to the Far East. He’s going to talk about how anybody can make money selling their photographs and that you don’t need to spend thousands of dollars on fancy camera equipment to do it. In fact, he specializes in taking digital photos.

Rich has been so successful at selling his photos that the American Writers and Artists Institute (AWAI) asked him to co-author their new self-study course Turn Your Pictures into Cash: A Comprehensive Course in Taking and Selling Amazing Photographs, you can learn more about it at ThePhotographersLife.com/cc/

The details are still being worked out, but it looks like we may be able to talk Rich into conducting a special bonus session late Saturday and into Sunday. Stay tuned for details!

In the next issue I’ll tell you about some more of the exciting entrepreneurs you’ll be meeting at Work at What You Love. Oh, and remember when I said this August was the chance of a lifetime? Well, I ran across this quote from Charles Handy that put things into perspective, “For the first time in the human experience, we have a chance to shape our work to suit the way we want to live instead of always living to fit in with our work... We would be mad to miss the chance.”

I count myself among the lucky few who have been able to shape my work to suit the way I want to live, all the more so because my mother, Barbara, never had that chance. The last nine and a half years of her life were spent working incredibly hard at her job as a second-shift custodian at a nearby university. And while her physical presence is no longer with me, rarely a day goes by when I don't feel her important presence lovingly cheering me and my Big Dreams along.

Before he died, Michael Landon reminded us, “Whatever you want to do, do it now. There are only so many tomorrows.”

I hope you can join me and Barbara Winter this August in Northampton. I look forward to meeting you... and helping you quit your job and work at what you love!

For all the details, visit ChangingCourse.com/workshop.htm

P.S. The early registration special discounted price ends June 30, 2005.

If you wish to know the road up the mountain, ask the man who goes back and forth on it. ~ Zenrin

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Big Changes, Little Changes

By Charlotte Burton

Magazines these days are filled with articles on how to plan your life well in advance, but which don’t necessarily take the fact into account that LIFE can, and will, get in the way. What do you do when everything around is changing at a pace that even you can’t keep up with and your life plan certainly can’t? With all that has happened in the world economy and the decisions made by certain countries regarding terrorism and war, it is not a good idea to stick your head in the sand and ignore it all.

What about when change happens at a more microcosmic level, i.e. what happens if you are one of the casualties of the recent ‘downsizing’ of firms in the City so your life changes in a far more immediate fashion? Or what if your life changes in a positive way? You get married, get promoted, have a baby - you could even win the lottery!

Reactive to Opportunity

Life plans are a good idea but for them really to work, they must be flexible so that they can still be useful when situations change. It is important for them to be not quite so specific as to ignore any opportunity that just presents itself because it is ‘not quite what you wanted,’ or if you feel that the opportunity has come along too early or too late. There is a saying that “opportunities are viewed as more important with the vision of hindsight” but this can be flipped to say that opportunities when they first present themselves can be seen as risks too large to cope with.

Bring Your Dreams to Life

So how do you plan your life in the first place?

There are so many techniques that you can use for planning your ideal life, but the one that works best is when you really and truly know inside and out what you want, how it would look and what it would feel like to be there.

Imagine Who You Want to Be

You can start simply by imagining what you want to be doing on a specific day in the future, for example 1st January 2020. Flesh out the daily tasks - where are you living, who with and how busy is your day? What do you look like, how do you behave with others and what are your relationships like? All the areas of your life should be included within your plan: Career, Friends and Family, Physical Environment, Health, Personal Growth, Money, Significant Other, Fun and Recreation.

This is not an exhaustive list - if there is a significant part of your life that is not included above, add another category or rename one.

Pay Attention to Detail

Once you know what you want, it is essential that you break each goal down into smaller ones that you can work towards on a daily basis. For example, if you wish to be healthy enough to run a marathon next year, you could sign up to your local gym today and start going regularly, or find a local running group to join, and then start doing smaller sponsored runs until running is a daily part of your life. Of course, just doing the physical exercise is not the only thing you can do to make this dream come true - for a goal of being healthy, you must also eat healthily, sleep well and enough for you (sleep amounts vary from person to person), be able to manage stress, among many other things.

Life Comes Around to Play

But what happens when you get sucked into the day-to-day drag of life and end up realizing that a year has gone by and you haven’t done anything towards your goals and you can barely remember what they were in the first place?

So what CAN you do with your plan when life gets in the way?

Be Realistic

One way that life can get in the way is through sheer overwhelm: you may feel overwhelmed by the sheer size of each category when you do break each big goal from your life plan down into smaller ones. It is really important that you keep motivated and don’t ask too much of yourself. If you are asking yourself to do 4 hours worth of work when you only have 30 minutes a day, don’t be disheartened, be realistic. You may find that if you set yourself one thing a day to do, and get that done faster than you think then you can get another one done and get ahead of the plan.

Be Flexible

Another way that life can be annoying? is through unexpected twists: this is where keeping your plan flexible comes into play. Depending on what life has thrown at you, there are different ways of doing this. Firstly, you need to keep in control of your plan rather than letting it control you. Monthly, Quarterly and Annual Reviews are very useful ways of making sure your plan fits in with what is really happening in your life and this kind of prevention system can help you anticipate and handle unexpected situations in the best way for you.

Be Willing to Reconsider

What if you change your mind about sections of the plan? No problem - you can redesign your plan as many times as is necessary because it is YOUR plan. Just go back to the drawing board and rethink - you may realize that one change in your plan may impact more areas than the one area you want to alter. It is important to remember here that it is your life and anything is possible, so if the prospect of replanning is daunting, just imagine where you want to be and start taking some action!

Be Honest with Yourself

It is important to know that whatever you plan it must be right for you - if your goal involves actions that you are either not capable of or actions you are not willing to do, you must review what you want and be honest about the likelihood of you actually completing the actions you set yourself.

Contemplate a Coach

What if life keeps getting in the way and you get disheartened about ever having the life you want? Or if you don’t have a clue what you want as every situation you try on in your head just doesn’t feel right? Here you may have to address your more basic needs and the real situation you’re living in. It may be the case that you would benefit from having a coach to help you out in sorting through the top layers of life to the real you underneath - the one which you have hidden away and ignored. A coach can help you realize what your true values are and help you figure out how you can translate this to your current life.

If you do decide to hire a coach, do try a few out to see what different styles are available - most coaches offer a frëe consultation where you can get to know the personality of the coach and their coaching style before deciding whether it is for you. Prices vary greatly, so this is where trying out many possible coaches can be extremely useful as you can decide whether the service you have just tried is worth the asking price.

Proactive & Adaptable

Life is all about change. How you adapt to that change and how proactive you are in chasing your ideal are what really makes the difference in having a fulfilled life. Having a plan can help you in being prepared for whatever life decides to throw at you while keeping you on track to achieving your dreams.

About the Author

Charlotte Burton is a Licensed Career Coach & Psychometric Assessor. For more information and to sign up for the ezine, view the website at LifeIsVital.com or email Charlotte@LifeIsVital.com to request your complimentary consultation.
 

The only way of discovering the limits of the possible is to venture a little way past them into the impossible. ~ Arthur C. Clarke

Upcoming Workshops & Teleclasses

This Summer, Discover How to Replace Your Job With Work You Really Love… and Gain the Freedom, Flexibility,  and Quality of Life You Deserve Work at What You Love Workshop, August 19-20, 2005

  • Find out how you can escape the J-O-B box… and uncover a whole new world of possibilities.

  • Tap your wildest dreams... and create a step-by-step plan to make them happen right now...

  • Discover the powerful secret to turning almost anything into an alternative to a job...  

  • Highly successful entrepreneurs do it instinctively. Now you can, too. Learn powerful, proven techniques for transforming ideas into bankable income.

 

Work at What You Love:
The Life-Changing Workshop for
People Who Want to Quit Their Jobs and Get a Life

August 19-20, 2005
Northampton, Massachusetts

ChangingCourse.com/workshop.htm

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View From the
Other Side:
True Stories From People Who Took the Leap

Advice often given to new writers is to write about what you know. That’s exactly what William MacPhee did.

After being diagnosed with schizophrenia in 1987, William  was hospitalized six times and attempted suicide once. How things have changed. After taking small business training classes in Ontario, he developed a business plan for a magazine called Schizophrenia Digest. In 1994 he launched his publication in Canada with the help of a $45,000 loan which he got his father to co-sign and proceeded to edit his magazine from his father’s basement.

Today his Buffalo, NY based magazine has 25,000 Canadian and 50,000 U.S. subscribers. Last year his subscriptions and ads sales (most all from pharmaceutical companies) brought in $500,000 in revenue.

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Resources for a Change

A Higher Purpose

If you feel called to a higher purpose you may enjoy this article on how more older professionals start second careers in the clergy CareerJournalEurope.com

Write for Paws

Love dogs or cats and writing? Combine the two! Learn how at the Dog Writers Association of America (DWAA.org) or the Cat Writers Association (CatWriters.org)

Want to Support the Inventor in Your Child?

The Kids Invention Magazine (BKFK.com) is a great place to start. The magazine is published by By Kids For Kids (BKFK) which provides support needed for kids to create great ideas and inventions for other kinds to use. According to their web site there is no charge to child, parent, or teachers for any of our services. Access to idea development on the web site, idea submission, contest participation, and any resulting further work we do with the kids are all free. This international resource also has a special section featuring inventions by African Americans, Canadians, Chinese, women, and other inventors.